Wednesday, March 20, 2013

The Freedom of Confession


He who conceals his sins does not prosper, but whoever confesses and renounces them finds mercy.      Proverbs 28:13  NIV
    
   When kids do wrong to each other, it’s common to see an adult bring them together and demand that they say the phrase, “I’m sorry”.  The response is often a half-hearted and mumbled repetition of the required words.

   While the intent behind this is noble, it’s not very helpful.  It’s more helpful, especially in the long run, if the offense is named and forgiveness is requested.  “I’m sorry” is often repeated to get the situation over with as quickly as possible.  “Will you forgive me for stealing your cookie?” brings the humility necessary to rebuild  trust in a relationship.

   The same is true in our relationship with God.  We can say, “I’m sorry for sinning” without really admitting that we were wrong.  When we say, “Father, please forgive me for lying to my boss”, we open our hearts to God’s grace and take an important step towards the good character that will make us more honest in the future.  This week, take two steps to help you grow in confession.

   1. Whenever you sin, pause and ask God to forgive you of  the specific sin you committed.

   2. Set aside a brief time, 10-15 minutes, to sit quietly before God. Read 1 John 1:8-10 and  Psalm 139:23-24 and then ask God to show you if there are any specific sins you have overlooked.  As he brings them to your attention, ask for his forgiveness and be confident that he will forgive you. 

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