Monday, June 16, 2014

Encouragement and Challenge for Fathers

Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her.  Ephesians 5:25  NIV

   Father’s Day is great time to be reminded of the important truth that one of the best things a father can do for his children is to love their mother.  Even if you are a divorced father, one of the best things you can do for your kids is to treat their mother with kindness and respect.

   The Apostle Paul calls husbands to love their wives “just as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her.”  Giving yourself up for your wife is not just for big moments, it’s for the million little parts of life – daily decisions about schedules and plans and raising the kids.  When husbands don’t give up themselves for their wives, it’s a form of giving up on their marriage.  That may seem like the easy and acceptable thing to do today, but giving up on our marriage hurts many lives. 

   It is possible to raise active and healthy children and have a healthy marriage.   It’s possible if parents put God first , their spouse second and then the kids.  If we keep God first by daily walking with him and praying in all circumstances, he will give us the daily bread we need to keep our marriage strong and to raise healthy kids.  Here are three ideas to put this week’s SPA into practice.

• If you are married, identify one way that you can show your spouse this week how valuable they are to you.
• If you are married with children, identify one way that you can show your kids this week how valuable your spouse is to you. Is a date night overdue?
• If you are single, pray for some of your married friends to have strength and wisdom to maintain strong and vibrant marriages.

- This SPA co-created with my Community Alliance Church friend, Moriah D'Amico

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